Critical thinking on love, Guilt and Casual Relationship


 It is unnecessary to define what constitutes love and what constitutes guilt. These two feelings are universal to everyone, although some elements, such as intention, education, morals, ethics, and, in some circumstances, the environment, are the most determining factors for their intensity. When your infatuation turns into love, may the world war happen that day, the person will be at peace in his mind, similarly, the unproven God may prove his identity in front of the people of the world, but you can't be entirely joyful if you are feeling guilty for some reason.

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In this modern time when the casual relationship is not considered part of your emotional love affair, the feelings of "guilt" come to modern society. And the feelings of both Love and Guilt are often decided by the morality of the persons but morality and ethics are not objective things. various kinds of morality strike when we scrutinize someone's love or guilty, most of the time particularly guilty because of "Everything is fair in love and war", though I may not agree with Shakespeare only the psychologist and scientist examines why people are happy, every person in the world dissect their guilt and love to dissect the other person's guilt.

In a serious love affair, someone doesn't feel guilty till when he/ she doesn't cheat with his/ her partner. The common feeling is "Sorry and Excuse" for mistakes. But when you are going to be in a casual relationship the feeling of guilt may occur because you are not fully aware of your partner and most importantly you don't know what is the limit, where is the boundary but everyone in every casual thing tries to gain the maximum, in achieving for the maximum someone always tried little more and this trying after dissections most of the times falls inside the boundary of guilt. 


Is it necessary to dissect the causal relationship? I don't think so.  We always know that there will be plenty of lies but we didn't consider this all at the surface level. When the relationship moves forward and our little force to gain the maximum is the subject of morality. In every casual relationship, everyone knows what is the endpoint but you can't talk to your partner like that let's do it, then the maneuvering starts with flirtation and the flirtation will lead to the climax. everything is perfect from the beginning and your maneuvering towards climax is the part of morality? Everybody likes flirtation and little maneuvering techniques but when go to dissect each word of your partner towards climax is a nonsensical thing. your partner is not a hooker, he or she doesn't offer their dignity from the beginning, they also don't want to feel the guilt and don't want to give you the reason that they are not hookers, they are pretty normal like all of us.


From the beginning, you are sure that you are going to be in a casual relationship but from some corner of the mind, you are always in double thought that if your partner ends up in a serious relationship with you then what would be the option. To continue the love or end it after the climax or act as nothing has happened between us. Going with the result to continue in love is a good thing for both of them but stopping everything and acting like nothing has a serious ethical problem, but the intention from the beginning was the casual relationship then how can we decide the ethical dilemma after the result, but everyone always judge you by your result and no one will try to think what is your intention from the beginning and the process. You will not be judged by your ethics and morality, you will be judged by the ethics of the person who judges you, he may be right according to his ethics and morality. Ethics and Morality is subjective thing and it varies from person to person and it varies from place to place and it certainly varies with the age of people. Your result may get three different moral verdicts from the three-generation perspective, Who is right? I don't know where you will stand after the verdict but it depends upon the point of discussion if the discussion is negative then you will feel guilt and if it is positive then you are the new Macho man or woman.


These all things are ethically right or wrong doesn't matter till the person doesn't feel that, that doesn't mean also you can avoid the critically or ethically thinking before going to do something. You may not feel anything that doesn't also make you right, be intelligent and try to think from every point of view and then take your decision. Always open yourself to every possible option 
 that makes your character always likable to others that everyone will support you whether in your bad or good decision.


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